The story tale

  Phases of quarantine : "The starting phase of corona " "Holi mnane ayye the yar , ...." Cant even complete the sentence because I don't know ," kab jayege " anyways let's just see our journey from March 2020 .. 2020 was the favourite meme material of all the insta users , 😂.. "Bahoot kosa h is sal ko hmne " But deep down , we all have grown differently in this year .. I still remember , "me and my friend were so excited because we were going home on Friday , so that we can spent 2 days with our family 💃.. But "kise pta tha, kya hone wala .. "Who knows those 2 days will become almost 2 years .." My brother came to pick me at the station , we both were very happy because we were meeting after long time .. we both have planed those 2 days .. Lekin " kise pta tha , sirf 2 din nhi ek doosre ko kafi mhino tak jhelna h " 😂 "Or fir ati h modi ji ki speech " "Bhaiyon or bhno desh m o...

  There are some things in our life that we can't change , in fact there are many things  that we can't reverse , but there is one thing which we can do to fix these broken things in our life is :  "Move on "  Hello , hope you are doing good , and if you are stuck somewhere , I can try to help you . So let's begin our coversation with another topic  Chapter 20  " Moving on "  This is the most important word and most common also ,  Moving on is not as simple as it's spelling , it's extremely complicated.  You must be thinking that here I am going to talk about how to move on after your break up !? Right  !? Ya , you are correct at some point , but this is not only the matter of concern .  So , why moving on is important  Because. " Dhyan agar ghav par rhega , to sari umar b dard kam nhi ho payega "  So yes , to save ourselves from hurting , moving on is necessary.    Let's imagine , you are a topper  and unfo...

 Chapter 18  "Blaming "  Me and my brother were going somewhere ,  He was driving and I was sitting on  the next seat  We  were getting  late , so I was asking him again and again to drive fast . ... He started driving fast , but we end up crashing into a speed   breaker , because it was too fast  And here goes my comment  "Itni tej chlane ko b nhi kaha tha "  We were half way  towards our destination but there was traffic jam , and I was afraid whether he will be able to handle it carefully or not .  So I asked him to move towards the right line (because less vehicles were there )  But we end up hitting a car  And here goes my comment  " Dhng se ni chla sakta !?"  But somehow we managed to cross that path .  After some time I was just about to ask him to driVe slow , and he stopped the car !! Gave me the key , and said "khud chla le "  😂 Those three words were enough to start the t...

 Chapter 17  Positive !!? Many people wants to know  how to stay positive all the time ?? , I will not tell you how to be positive all the time Infact I am going to ask you one question Is being positive a solution for every problem ? " Positive kaise rhe!! , kya positive rhna problem ka solution h ???"" Think about it ,!! We all have heard these phrases many times " Be positive" " Subh subh bolo " " Think positive , so that positivity can  reflect in your work " All these phrases are true but not always. Don't worry if you are not getting what I am saying , let' s take one example Imagine a situation : You are asked to stay outside in the sunny day (very hot ) for 8 - 9 hours . And you have to complete one task , like measuring the length of ground . What you will do to motivate yourself , Because you also have to put efforts in that work , and for that efforts you should be motivated !! Right ?? Will you say ,...

  Power of silence What does this word " silence " means to you ?? For me it is  the best solution for every situation . Do you really believe in staying quite!! ?? ..... .. May be , this chapter can change your views , like mine ! From the last 20 years , my father kept on telling  me " you don't always need to answer the person " And I was always like , " why , if someone says bad to me , I will also repeat the same " "Beta , you don't need to answer through your words;  , your actions , your success , your work will give answer to them " But unfortunately it took me a lot of time to understand , I always used   to put myself in the  argument with those people who discourage me , But now , things have changed , I have learnt to say nothing to them Because I  have realised one thing , not every one is going to like you , not everyone is going to respect your decision, not everyone is going to motivate you , .... Everyone w...

  Chapter 15 "Time" " Ye waqt hi to h jo sab badal deta h " We all were taught in junior classes that "Time and tide waits for none" , at that time we just learn it , but meaning of  this little word time was not that much clear , .... Because " Samay k sath sath hi samay ka matalb  samjh ata  h " I was walking here and there in my house , and listening to the tik tok tik tok of the clock which  was hanging there,  on the wall . Seems like this clock wants to talk to me , so I stopped there and started staring at it . The seconds needle  , was travelling very fast , seems like it is asking me to get up and run fast to achieve  my goal . The needle of hours was slightly slow and asking to take a deep breath and relax for a while . Seems like it was telling not to rush for things , both the needles were telling different things .  "Whether I should run fast , or slow down and take a break " Then I heard one voice "Don...

 Chapter 14  "Different opinions "  I went to the market to purchase some clothes ,  "Bhaiya , show me that corner one " "Yes , yes.. this black one " It was a Saree of black colour  !! There was one aunty who was standing behind me , she called the shopkeeper and ask to show her the brightest pink colour (very dark )  And after looking at that colour , she was happy   And  excited , seems like it was her favorite colour .  Honestly speaking I really don't like that colour , and I was thinking " who will buy this🙄😒 " because according to me that colour was very irritating and was not worth buying .  But after this judgement , I realised that may be she loves that colour as I love black ,! I think I should not considered my choice as fact , it's just about different opinions , different choices .  This was a incident of only 2 mins which taught me a lot ..  I realised how hypocritic we are , how easily we distinguish betw...

 Chapter 13  " The bond " Look at these chairs ,   "aren't they beautiful "  Yess , absolutely but you know what is more beautiful , ?? That glue , that force , that thing , which is  hidden but playing most important role in joining every single part of wood ! The bond which is shared , which is sacrificed by the glue so that these chairs can look beautiful ,  Is so pure and so beautiful .  A couple is not beautiful , the way they are bonding with each other is beautiful , their understanding is beautiful , there efforts , there sacrifices .... All these things are collectively playing role so that this universe can say  "This couple is beautiful "  Isn't it ?? I was just looking at these chairs , this sofa set and after a long time I realised a single wood is nothing without a bond right ?? Whenever I look at them , I always realises how beautifully the glue is playing it's role . This glue , this force is not only in artificial things...

 Chapter 12  "Never underestimate yourself "  There were paintings all around the road , Allena was sitting there right in front on the chair , she was observing people 's reaction about her paintings . She was very happy after seeing that many people are liking it , but deep down there was something which was discouraging her " That's not so good ," "Ohh come on, don't waste your time here " There were almost more than 100 people who were praising her  art , but her mind was still stuck on those who were not  liking them . Allena heard someone's voice in the crowd , "Mr ukresh 's paintings are better than this rubbish sale " Allena went home , sitting with her paints and brush , was about to start a new painting , but there was one thought that was troubling her again and again  , she was thinking "what if people will dislike her new painting , " " Why some people were not praising my art , why they do...

 Chapter 11  Depression :  One of my friend told me just few minutes ago ,  There was a person in her locality who committed suicide yesterday .  He was in depression since last year .  "What is depression "  I can hear this word , The word itself is enough to create bad vibes in the surroundings . Right ?! See, during this period of pandemic , many of  us are feeling frustration. I know its tough for many of us . May be we are not getting , what we should have .  May be we feeling completely lonely .  But my friend there must be some other way ,  Life is not just the game , that you can quit easily and restart it again . You never know whether it will restart or not ,  We don't know the life after death , do we !?! Okay , so let's talk more about this !  Let's just simply connect it to our study, you will easily find why I am trying to connect it with study.   If I give you one question of your respective subjec...

 Chapter 10  The supportive role : There should always be one person in our lives , with whom we can share anything , without a fear of being judged . Right ?!  And , fortunately many of us have that person , but unfortunately many of us , are still searching for someone . Right ?!  I don't know from which category you belong. We have watched many movies , many web series , and we all know about the supportive roles , right !?  Remember the  movie sanju , how genuinely his father was always there in his support , even though he made many mistakes .  And what about his best friend , you remember , he was always there for him .   I know it's not necessary to be with  someone always , but it becomes easy when we know that we have someone , who will always support us .  Sometimes our half of the problems get sorted when someone says ,they are there with us , for us .  Right ?  How easy things become , haina !?  Yesterday ...

 Chapter 9 Practise  "Ghr se nikalte hi , kuch door chlte hi " Raste mein I realised how flawlessly , effortlessly , freely , easily , I am driving my scooty .  It's just I am only sitting and it is moving , and I am on my way towards my destination .  I was literally enjoying it ,  Oops , the person who is  50 m away from me,  just fall , from his scooty !!  It's not that simple . , I still remember how badly I fall on the very first day , when I don't even know how to start it , I just gained theoretical knowledge , about what is indicator , left single , right signal aand the horn only , I thought it would be as easy as cycle . But " mujse to handle hi na samble " 😂 I was under the scooty , scooty was over me ..  Hahaha 😂, it was not that flawless and easy in the starting . , Infact I used to be so careful in the starting , because I don't want my leg to get fractured .  Haah , the signal is over now , back to the present , on my wa...

 Chapter 8  "The triggers"  Whenever we try to move on from something , whenever we try to tackle the  situations , ! We feel like we are going back again , we feel like we can't do this, on every third day ,! Okay !, Let me talk about this more , so that you can get my point . Think about the moment when you first time fall in love , now jump to the moment when he /she left you . Think about the moment of your break up . The very first break up that you had , after loving someone truly . Now let's see this thing again , but now scientifically!.. okay !? You ready ? Shall I begin Remember the very first day , where you were sitting with your broken heart , may be it was important for you to move on from that person , may be you were thinking to get back to him / her . But when you realised that you have to move on , that person is not your mr perfect / miss perfect . , You started talking to your friends , you started randomly chatting with anyone , you wer...

 Chapter 7  Succes - the wrong defination  My dear friends what is the defination of success for you , being rich ?!  Being at good position ?!  Having good job , travelling the world , having good bank balance "  Is this the only thing which came into your mind whenever you  think of success .  I guess yess , what else we want ! Having money, branded clothes , branded car ,  What else we want ??? !! I guess nothing , because this is the only thing for which we we studied in 10 th , 12th , complete our graduation with good marks , and still studying . Right ?!  We were taught in our childhood  "Padh likhar bde admi bn na "  Aaaand we are running for this , because everyone want's to become that "bda admi "  Sometimes I wonder ,  we have set a judgment , and we call ourselves  ,we never judge people  Okay , there is one question in my mind , will you  answer ?  Ummm , if I ask you who is more succes...

 Chapter 6  " The ladder of life "  How many times , you fall while learning cycle .  How many times you were eaten by the snake at 98.  I guess many times.  " Don't leave the cycle from behind , papa you there !? ..I will fall , I don't know how to control the handle , please be there ,hold my cycle , it's tough .. papa you listening !!.  , I will fall  Suddenly I fall into the little groove , my tiny little cycle was over me , everyone there,  was laughing .  The little kid  of 4 years inside me unable to decode their laughs .  " Why you laughing , why you were not there to hold my cycle , I have fallen so badly and you laughing ,."  Though I was sad  because still I am not able to handle the cycle properly . Whenever I look back to see if anyone is holding my cycle or not , I always fall .  With the passing time somehow I learnt to maintain balance between my eye contact and my cycle handle .  This was...

 Chapter 5  Consistency !  Yes you spell the title correctly , this is the word which can change many things . This is the only word which can upgrade you from zero to hero .  We all have heard this in our childhood stories that continues flow of water can break the stone .  But applying water on a stone once , twice  cannot break it , but the flow of river , the water that constantly hit the stone not just twice or thrice , infinite times able to break it . This is known as consistency .  This is not only  the word which is generally used in motivational speech , this is the main base of achieving something , . Have you ever looked around , and think about this , ?? . If not then why not ..  Just take a pause , and recall any example for your daily lives .  Let me help you ,  We eat food regularly I.e we are maintaining consistency by taking our diet so that we can maintain a good health . Can we just eat for 2,3 days only througho...

 Chapter 4  " The dish of success "   So moving on to the human physiology , here I am back with another topic , that is hard work  " Evey action has equal and opposite reaction "  But is this sentence suitable in real life also .  Sometimes yes , but many times no .  Because this is a physics statement and my dear friend our life is more in love with chemistry , rather than physics .  Anyhow , you are not getting my point right now , but if this statement is completely true, then our hard work should pay us equally ,  Then the donkey should be more valuable then horse or any other animal .  But it's not like that .  So why I call life loves more chemistry . (Discuss later ) Because the extra factors , that are considered in life and so in chemistry .  So here the extra factor is smart work  Isn't it ..  We all know that in today's era only hardwork can't pay us , but when it mixes with smart work  It become...

 Chapter 3  The power of a single decision !  Sometimes I felt like I am the most confused person in the world , everytime when your mind says something , your heart says other thing . You got confused whether to step forward or backward .  "Hmm , I wanted to drink water , I go to the kitchen , I hold one glass , looked at it and stopped , I was just about to turn on the R.O.  What stopped me , the another organ of my body says , if you drink more , you have to pee more , then you will go to washroom again and again , and it will cost your time , and guess what!!,  the most precious thing in this world is time !..  Ohhh , shocked and surprised , dropped the glass immediately !  My another organ says knock , knock " if you will drink more water , more your face will glow , more healthier you will be ,and #pimple free face and you will look beautiful ... !! Ohhhhhh , happy and excited ! .  Pick up the glass again , pour the water , just about t...

Chapter 2  Why do we exist!?  While washing dishes , all of a sudden a thought interrupted my mind from my fav song " yar mera titliyan varga " . Suddenly I make a pout of my mouth , not to kiss but I nornally do this when I used to think something very important . There was a conversation going on in my subconscious part , what is going to happen with me in the upcoming years , from this thought to another one  , where I suppose to be present now , basically what is the purpose of life , Me : am I going to die without knowing the purpose why I was born . My brain : oh baby , no baby , u got me all wrong baby ) . I was wondering who has found the reason yet ? Bill gates , mukesh ambani , mark , elon musk Or anyone ? Is being rich and successful the only reason why we are here . Then who is the one who know the reason why we are existing . Aand that's so deep thought where I stopped washing dishes .  "Received a flying chappal " Haah! Anyway washing ...

  Chapter 1  The story tale : It was 8:40 in the morning , I almost forgot about our plan of visiting temple . ( That's our belief , we went there yearly ) But even after realising it , I went to sleep again Haah!! It took almost 3 hours for us (the whole family ) to get ready We went there, there was a huge line of people who were waiting to enter the temple , so that they can make a wish .   At starting there were only two lines , then people started making another line , then another one . There I noticed , they not only wanted to ask for a wish but they also want to make it complete as soon as possible . I was surprised , but deep down I was aware , this is not the first time when I was watching people rushing so badly (pushing each other ) . We were standing there since 1 hour , so I was as free as anything , I was relating that situation with life . Aand what I observe , "yar aise hi to hota h , hame bas khud hi to aage jana hota h , chai kisi ko fir h...