Chapter 18

 Chapter 18 

"Blaming " 

Me and my brother were going somewhere , 

He was driving and I was sitting on  the next seat 

We  were getting  late , so I was asking him again and again to drive fast . ...

He started driving fast , but we end up crashing into a speed   breaker , because it was too fast 

And here goes my comment 

"Itni tej chlane ko b nhi kaha tha " 

We were half way  towards our destination but there was traffic jam , and I was afraid whether he will be able to handle it carefully or not . 

So I asked him to move towards the right line (because less vehicles were there ) 

But we end up hitting a car 

And here goes my comment 

" Dhng se ni chla sakta !?" 

But somehow we managed to cross that path . 

After some time I was just about to ask him to driVe slow , and he stopped the car !!

Gave me the key , and said "khud chla le " 

😂

Those three words were enough to start the thought process in my subconscious part . 

And I went in a deep thought 

Actually I realise this , we kept on blaming others 

"Iski vjah se aisa hogya " , 

The point is we gave the steering wheel  of our car to someone's else and kept on blaming them about the mis happenings.

I remember one incident of my college life , 

One of my friend  came to me and shared her  problem , I listen to her carefully , 

I figured out what she should do and what she shouldn't , I  told her about my views. 

But I guess my advice was not appropriate according to her but still she follows it , and end up blaming me .

She end up by saying "I wish mne iski advice na mani hoti 😂".

Now I don't give advices 😂,

Anyway , the point is , it was not her mistake , we all  are like this . 

"We gave our keys of life to some one else , and if the person unfortunately damage our car of life " 

What we do ??

Hum kya krte !!

"Bas piche vali seat par baithkar badbdate rhte h , " 

Right ???!!

Everyone make mistakes , but we are not ready to accept that we can make mistakes , that's why we always blame others and shift our mistakes on someone's else head .

But how will this work , if we don't have enough courage to drive our car of life by own .

Let me share one more incident with you 

One of my classmate don't want to pursue the course which she was doing !

But her parents wants her to do that , she kept on complaining,  but was doing nothing regarding this .

I know sometimes it is difficult to take stand for our dreams , but it's important !

And I also agree that sometimes situations are more tougher than our imagination, but I have one question , 

Is your dream important to you ??

If yes  , then you have to  fight for it.

"god is not going to come and serve your dream " 

You have to collect enough courage to take stand for yourselves , you have to take all the responsibility of your  mistakes 

" Maidan chor m bhagne se to koi ldayi nhi jeeti jati  na !? "

Anyway choice is yours!

"It's your life , if you genuinely wants to reach your destination , you have to drive " 

And if you don't have enough courage to accept and  blame yourself 

" Fir to baithe rhiye piche bali seat par  " 

...

Take a pause , and honestly think about the situations where you let someone else to drive your life !

Now think ,was it impossible for you to fight !!

I am sure it was not imposible , ya it may be tough but possible . 

"Kudrat ka b kya khoob krishma h 

Chlne vale k liye raste b bnaye h 

Or rukne vale k liye bhane b " 

I am noone to tell you what you should do , but trust me things will not gonna work out until you drive your car by yourself .

I have seen people fighting for their dreams , for their passion and on the parallel side I have also seen many people complaining about the people around them .

It all depends on us , how we handle the situation . 

No matter how harsh the situation is , it  can't force  you to give up on your dreams. 

As we all heard this " situation is just 10 percent , rest 90 percent is our reaction to the situation " 

There's not only  one single way to deal with things , there are lot of ways . 

" At last 

Get up from the back seat , and drive your car 

Don't forget to wear seat belt " 😂

Happy journey !!

Hope your journey will be as beautiful as this sky (in video ) 

Good bye 

Fir milte h !

♥️

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