Chapter 13

 Chapter 13 

" The bond "

Look at these chairs , 

 "aren't they beautiful " 

Yess , absolutely but you know what is more beautiful , ??

That glue , that force , that thing , which is  hidden but playing most important role in joining every single part of wood !

The bond which is shared , which is sacrificed by the glue so that these chairs can look beautiful , 

Is so pure and so beautiful . 

A couple is not beautiful , the way they are bonding with each other is beautiful , their understanding is beautiful , there efforts , there sacrifices .... All these things are collectively playing role so that this universe can say 

"This couple is beautiful " 

Isn't it ??

I was just looking at these chairs , this sofa set and after a long time I realised a single wood is nothing without a bond right ??

Whenever I look at them , I always realises how beautifully the glue is playing it's role .

This glue , this force is not only in artificial things , this exist in humans also , we all are connected with each with different -different types of bonds . 

friendship bond ,  love bond ,sister bond , brother bond , ... Right ?

And it looks more beautiful when people put efforts to save their bonds . 

But I wanted to ask you one thing , can a tree grow by just watering it once in the starting ??

Nooo o??

If a single tree needs continuous efforts to grow , 

Don't you think our relations , our bonds needs efforts too ??

Ya off course they need , every bond, every relation is the outcome of sacrifices and efforts 

That's why 

"Rishte bnane m or nibhane m fark hota h "

Right ???

There are many bonds in our life which are special , strong and many bonds needs efforts so that they can become stronger , ! 

I have observed this thing many times , 

Every relationship is smooth and perfect in the starting , the starting days are happy are exciting too , but after some months what happens !!

"Don't wait for my next line , we all know " 😂

""Break up ""

Right ??

Things turns from it's about us to its about me !!

The person in the top list of our inbox shifted to block list !!😂right ??

My only point is why do bonds get weaker and weaker after certain time ??

If you had any break up , you must know the reason 

??

Very less percentage of people have genuine reasons , .. I am not lying .. this is fact 

Because my dear friend the thing that you broke up , the bond which is no more , was not love !!

Yes, it was attraction only !

Okay , some people will disagree here at this point , but tell me one thing . 

Do we break up with our parents ??

I mean many times they scold us , many times we feel like there is communication gap between us and our parents , but do we break up with them ??

Nooooo!

Because it's a love !!

A bond which is created with love will never break , 

But a bond which is created by attraction have high chances to break . 

"Because attraction is not the glue of our sofa "

Attraction will never stay forever but love does ,

Just a small misunderstanding , a small communication gap , long distance .. these things can easily break a bond which is fulfilled by attraction . 

But the bond which is created by efforts , love , care.. is not so easy to break .  

Let's talk about the very beautiful and special bond of our life !!

Which bond I am talking about ??

Ummmm !!

The bond between a child and her mother , 

We all know that how many efforts a mother do to raise her  child , for her family .. for everything .!

Today whosoever we are,'; are only just because of her , it was she who was constantly putting efforts in this bond since we were born right?

Our mothers have played the role of that glue which is binding the whole family without even asking for any credits . 

Isn't it beautiful . 

" All the hidden sacrifices , are so beautiful "

So let's end our conversation here 

At the end , I just want to conclude this 

" Think about the reason why you started this bond , before breaking it "

I am not  asking you to save every relation, but if it important for you , put your ego aside and put some efforts into it ..