Chapter 10

 Chapter 10 

The supportive role :

There should always be one person in our lives , with whom we can share anything , without a fear of being judged . Right ?! 

And , fortunately many of us have that person , but unfortunately many of us , are still searching for someone . Right ?! 

I don't know from which category you belong. We have watched many movies , many web series , and we all know about the supportive roles , right !? 

Remember the  movie sanju , how genuinely his father was always there in his support , even though he made many mistakes . 

And what about his best friend , you remember , he was always there for him . 

 I know it's not necessary to be with  someone always , but it becomes easy when we know that we have someone , who will always support us . 

Sometimes our half of the problems get sorted when someone says ,they are there with us , for us .  Right ? 

How easy things become , haina !? 

Yesterday I was watching a audition of DID (dance india dance ) , there was a girl who was a good dancer but she was not at all supported by her family , the way she was crying , it touches my heart . I can see in her eyes how badly she wants her family to support her , she also deserved to be praised by her family , haina ?? 

Ya , I know we have  heard lot of stories like this , but have you wondered , what if we put our ego aside and support each other !!. 

She has reached to a reputed platform , ya she has achieved her aim of becoming a dancer also . But I can see a hollow inside her , which she wanted to be filled with love and support of her family . 

She could have performed better , if her father was there with her , like geeta 's , babita 's father 

Right ? 

May be her mental health would never have effected . 

Things could be better , if we have support , specially from our loved ones , right na ??! 

I have seen many examples , my friend you don't have to specially go anywhere to see this , you can just sit and observe the people around you . 

" Mana ki gir kar othne ki jo himat rkhte h 

Vo firse chlne ka sahas b rkhte h " 

" Magar jo sambhal lo tum unhe ek dfa 

To ajj na hote vo is duniya se kfa " 

See , I know many of us are strong ,and many of us are in the way of becoming strong , but if we support each other , if we respect each other decision without judging , if we say each other that " whenever you fall , I will always be there to pick you up " , if we  motivate each other , if we neglect each other's mistakes , if we love each other the way we are " 

Things could be better , ?! Isn't it 

Not being supported by anyone can't stop  someone to reach their destination . 

But not being supported by anyone , can create a very bad impact on someone's mental health . 

You know the reason of stress , depression , anxiety , ?! 

It all starts  from here only , if we have someone with whom we can share anything , then there will be no burden on our head , if we have someone  who is always there with us , then there will be no anxiety , if we have someone who always listen to our thoughts and praises them , then there will be no hesitation. If we have someone  who makes us feel special ,then there will be no insecurity , if we have someone who only encourages us and never compare us , then there will be no jealousy and competition . 

If we have someone who love the way we are , who don't want us to change , then there will be no loneliness . 

Right ?? 

But instead of waiting for someone to come , instead of cursing luck , destiny . Can't we play  the role of supporting person in someone's life . 

Han ?? 

Please be there with each other and tell each other 

" Tu chinta na kar , sath hu m tere "