Chapter 20

 

There are some things in our life that we can't change , in fact there are many things  that we can't reverse , but there is one thing which we can do to fix these broken things in our life is : 

"Move on " 

Hello , hope you are doing good , and if you are stuck somewhere , I can try to help you .

So let's begin our coversation with another topic 

Chapter 20 

" Moving on " 

This is the most important word and most common also , 

Moving on is not as simple as it's spelling , it's extremely complicated. 

You must be thinking that here I am going to talk about how to move on after your break up !?

Right  !?

Ya , you are correct at some point , but this is not only the matter of concern . 

So , why moving on is important 

Because. " Dhyan agar ghav par rhega , to sari umar b dard kam nhi ho payega " 

So yes , to save ourselves from hurting , moving on is necessary.   

Let's imagine , you are a topper  and unfortunately due to some reason you got failed , 

Then what should you do  ! 

Can you stay forever with a guilt , regret.? No !

One day you have to move from your result !!

And this is the only  solution, 

I have seen many examples  of my friends who were not able to score enough in their 12 th standards but now they are getting good ranks in other competitive exams , this is called moving on  . 

And there are some people who got stuck at one point , and still they are regretting about the past . 

Now can you relate the difference between Moved on and remain stucked !!

Today also , if you are feeling failure in any field , please don't stuck to it , see your mistakes , analyse them , observe them and start working for the next goal . 

I know I know you can't just move on the very next  day of your break up .

" Things take time " 

But after a certain period of time one should realise the importance of moving ahead in life .

It's okay , if you are tired and you want to take break from all the things ... 

Vo add (advertisement )  dekhi h na 

" Duniya k sath jo badalta jaye , duniya usi ki h jo chlta jaye " 

This is what I am trying to convey . .

So I have one question 

Can generation gap filled by this word " move on " 

Think about it 🤔

I guess , of course It can be filled , what if people from old generation try to understand modern generation ideas , what if people from modern generation try to understand the religious ideas of old generation . 

What if " char kadam vo hmari traf chle , or char kadam hum unki traf " .

Then we can meet at a point . 

Then this major problem of generation gap that every teenage face can be solved , 

Then this major problem of misunderstanding that every parents face when their children started growing can be fixed.  

Everything can be fixed , "agar hum sab 4 kadam move on kar le " 

Okay , my subconscious  mind is trying to ask me one question , 

Can I ask you ?? .

What is that important thing which is required before moving on ??

Think think 🤔

" Accepting the reality " .

If we accept the current situation , if we accept the failure , if we accept  that " jaroori nhi jise hum pasand kare , vo b hme pasand kare " 

Then don't you think it will become more easier for us to move on !!

See, the most difficult situation for  homo sapiens is accepting the reality , 

" Ye accept karna ki galti hmari thi " !!

Tum insta p b logo ko follow back nhi krte ho yar, 

Or tumhe chiye ki log tumhe like back kre 😂

Aise kaise chlega didi / bhaiya ??!

Our life is very similar to a book , you can't read the next page without turning the previous one .

If you want to read the complete novel of your life , then you have to turn your pages by yourself , 

Sometimes we got so attached with some chapters of novel that we don't want to turn pages , but you have to move on from one chapter to another if you want to complete the book ,  Otherwise you will remain on the same page , no matter how many years have passed.  

I have heard people saying " vakt k sath sare jakhm bhr jate h " 

But this statement is incomplete 

" Vo jakhm tbhi bhrte h jab hum khud marham lgate h " 

Time can't change things inside your heart , until you work on them . 

Trust me it can be difficult , but it is possible.  

 

" I have seen people moving on from lot of difficult situations  ( that we can't even imagine ) 

Because they know that they can't change things by staying at one particular situation . 

And this is the law of nature 

" One must move on to experience the better version of life " 

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Guys , move on from failures , from break up , from hard situations but please don't move on from your house . (Right now ) 

Earlier I was also thinking that  I should also  go for a trip to refresh my mood , but from the past few days i have seen  a lot of increase in cases .  And there is huge rush near all the hill stations.  

" Hume to ghr valo n chup krake ghr baitha diya 😂 " 

You also take precautions., And take good care of yourself .. kyoki third wave ab door nhi 

"Or third wave aagyi to , delhi bahoot door ho jayega fir " 😂

Please stay at your respective places , college khulne do yar 🙏😂

You can share your views in the comments , what you feel about this topic.  

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Thank you 

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Fir milte h !!♥️♥️