Chapter 7

 Chapter 7 

Succes - the wrong defination 

My dear friends what is the defination of success for you , being rich ?! 

Being at good position ?! 

Having good job , travelling the world , having good bank balance " 

Is this the only thing which came into your mind whenever you  think of success . 

I guess yess , what else we want !

Having money, branded clothes , branded car , 

What else we want ??? !!

I guess nothing , because this is the only thing for which we we studied in 10 th , 12th , complete our graduation with good marks , and still studying . Right ?! 

We were taught in our childhood 

"Padh likhar bde admi bn na " 

Aaaand we are running for this , because everyone want's to become that "bda admi " 

Sometimes I wonder ,  we have set a judgment , and we call ourselves  ,we never judge people 

Okay , there is one question in my mind , will you  answer ? 

Ummm , if I ask you who is more succesful , a gardener whose salary is just 25000 per month or a doctor . 

We all will say , obviously doctor !!right ?? 

But what if the gardener is happy with his life , he is satisfied with his salary , and living his life like a living soul . 

And the doctor whose salary is in lakhs per month , is taking pills so that he can sleep , not having glow in his face because he haven't smiled from a long time , because he never realised the true meaning of living . 

From the very first day of our school everyone taught us " study hard , there is lot of competition " 

We are running since we were born , we are running in a race which we don't even know where it will end . In our school lives we were running for grades, In our college we are running ,so that we can maintain a good cv and get good job . 

And after that we will still run , we will run so that noone can replace us , and this is never ending phenomenon . After some years , we will run after our kids and our kids will run after their future .

How many of us were taught , being successful means being happy , being successful means making your loved ones happy . 

For me  a car painter is successful , a shop keeper is successful , everyone who is satisfied and happy is successful . 

Whenever , we went to any family function , everyone ask us what are you doing in your career , but no one asks are you happy , are you satisfied , no one says it's okay don't run for money or position, find your satisfaction and happiness  . 

I am not saying , rich are not successful , neither I am saying you stop doing work , no ! 

I am just saying do what ever , but please don't run to become successful !! 

You are successfull now , if you can easily spend your day  with satisfaction and happiness , my friend congratulations you can count yourselves in the list of successful people, because many of us are still not happy and just running after the things blindly . 

Do work , but never feel stress of it 

Run , but never compare yourselves with others 

Earn money , but never chase it 

Hold a good position , but never be egoistic about it 

Do your things , your stuff , your career  , but atleast find half hour a day to smile only , to think about yourselves only .

Never follow the rules of this society blindly because they were not made by god , these are not facts , these are their judgements  

That's all about today !! 

Now tell me how many of  you are successful today ?? 

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