Chapter 22

 

Continuing from the story of allena ,(chapter 12) 

(You can read it ,on the same site ) 

At last she decided to just focus on her art , and  improve it rather then focussing on negative comments . 

But don't you think that there is alot of difference between deciding and  applying ??

Many of us decide many things ,

But do we complete them ?? 

Very few !!

So only deciding ca not be the solution of problem . 

It is same  when you saw a motivational movie , you decide to change your life but what happen after some hours .. , 

"Cheejen fir vhi ho jati h jahan phle thi " 

Isn't it ... ??! 

So this is not the solution. . !!

So what is the solution , even I don't know !,

Let's keep talking and try to find the solution through this debate !

Because it's easy to do happy ending in a movie ,and  novel , but this is our life .. it can't end like a Movie . 

So we have to find the permanent solution of things rather than temperorary solutions 

I was reading that chapter , where allena got failed because she was more focused on negative comments , but later on she realised this thing that she should have faith on her . 

My only question to you , what if she again face all this , because it's natural , We can't ask people to serve you positivity only . 

So one thing is clear from here , no need to work on outer world , so now one option left I.e your inner world . 

So , it means we should talk to our inner world to find some permanant solution . 

Even I also don't know what will be the conclusion after this conversation , I  started writing just after reading that chapter . (Chapter 12 -never underestimate yourself ) 

Okay ! So tell me one thing ,  we all have someone special  in our life(mummy , papa , bhai , bhen dost , relatives (oops not relatives 🤣😂)) , I mean with whom we share our secrets , with whom we can share  anything , 

Or I can say " our chugli partner " 

😂

So , we can share our feelings to them , ya ya I know we all wanted to act like that we all are very strong 

"Koi nhi batein share krke ,relax feel hone k bad chat delete krdena " , " kisi ko pta nhi chlega ki tum strong nhi ho " 

Sshhhh , you are very strong !!

Anyway , jokes apart . 

Have you seen the wiper on wind screen of car , 

What is the role of it , why do we use it and when do we use it ?!

On rainy day !!, To remove the water droplets from the sCreen , right ??

Aand , we use this so that we can see the road clearly , to avoid any miss happening 

Haina ?

Similarly , if you share your feelings , you tears , your phobia , your fears , anything which is troubling you , to  the person who knows you very well . Then your problems can be solved easily , that person will act as car ki screen ka whiper and will remove all your tears . 

Try it once , this will not make you weak , In fact you will grow beautifully . 

Let's enter the allena story for a while 

" Now allena finds a new roommate , after the break down , she has decided to focus on her work only , but  still she was facing triggers 

Her new roommate was miss gobin "

Miss gobin : " allena you look sad , what happened to you .. you are such a great artist , tell me what is bothering you " 

..

..

When miss gobin asked her , she cried loudly . It seems like she was waiting for someone to ask  "what is bothering her " 

And she told miss gobin everything 

Miss gobin decided to be with her all the time , she decided to take good care of her .. 

She even helps her in her paitings , and slowly slowly allena started growing .. she was learning how to deal with things .. now allena seems fearless . 

Now the smile on allena face proves this thing that she is mature enough to ignore negative comments . 

See , there is nothing bad in sharing things 

Kyoki 

" Kisi situation ko akele handle karne ki capability hona achi bat h 

Lekin har situation ko akele handle krne ki jidd krna , ye achi bat nhi h " 

.. 

I never hesitate to share things , not even by sharing my views with you . 

Because I know  I will learn something from it , and the person with whom I am sharing will also learn something from it . 

If anything you need , anything which is troubling you , share it with your parents , with your friends . Don't bear the things always . 

One more advantage of sharing : 

Sometimes we set our mind , and started thinking in the wrong direction , sometimes we see things in negative way .many times we create negativity in our mind because of this word "muje lga ki ......" 

"Maine aisa socha ...." 

Haina !

Because when we are in anger , we can't see the situation clearly , we will only see it emotionally 

But the person with whom we are sharing can tell us the reality 

"Meri dost to meri hi galti btati h 😂😂!" 

..😐anyway 

"Not every person with the gun is going to kill you "

Okay ?

But who will tell this to you  , 

"your loved ones " !? Haaa.  

.. 

When I shared with my friend that 

"Yr subah ki class attend nhi ho pati , otha nhi jata " 

And fom the very next day to entire year , she used to call me daily (before the class )  infinite number of times , until I pick her call 😂 . 

This taught me the meaning of promise , this taught me the meaning of friendship .. 

Although waking up early just for the 8:30class was very irritating , but I was happy after seeing 5 marks of attendence 😂

"She still have solution of my problems , and I learnt alot when I share things with her " 

So I guess , I should end here . 

But please , share your things with your loved ones . Because 

"Together we could be unstoppable " 

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..

Good bye 

Fir milte h 

.♥️💃