Chapter 19

 Chapter 19 

" The burden of thoughts " 

Thinking skill is one of  the most precious skill that a human have ,

But what if when your best skill becomes your worst skill.

Hello Friends , I hope you are doing well . 

Today I will share one small story with a beautiful moral. 

So let's begin our journey !

There was man who used to think alot . 

(Bahoot hi jyada ) !!!

There is no issue in thinking , but when your thoughts overpowers you then problem arises . 

And some times 

"Hame hi pta nhi chlta ki kab hum thinking se overthinking p aagye " 

So this man was the epitome of overthinking and negative thinking.  

He kept on thinking about various situations , 

He usually don't go out because he thought if he  go outside  he may suffer an accident 

" No , no I will Not drive the car , what If I die 

No, no I will not climb the mountain , what if some stone strike me and I die 

no " 

What if I will  die and .. what if and what if " 

Everybody was tired of  him , 

So he decided to do nothing and remain in  his house , because 

" Har cheej m kuch n kuch risk to hoga hi na , 

Or agar vo mar gya to !?😂" 

So one day that bhaiya ji was sleeping on his bed , by securing his " so called " precious life 

Aaaannnnd 

Guess what happened ??

🤔

??

 Ji han , he died , !!

The   painting which was hanged on the wall just above his head  fall on his neck , and he die all of sudden !! 

R.I.P bro !!

So , the small story is over  but your life is not over yet !!  

I know we should not be so careless like anything , we should consider the situations also before doing something , but this doesn't means that  " tum overthinking m b overthinking karne lag jao "" 

Sometimes we create a huge lump of thoughts that it  becomes difficult for us to come back !

Savdhan rahe , starak rhe 

Lekin jinda rhne k liye , jeena na bhoole !!!

Our brain is the most powerful weapon in this world , but when this weapon starts working against us , then no one can  save us !!!

Now you must be thinking that overthinking happens by its own , it's not your choice 

Right ?

Han , bat b shi h  , hum thodi na khud ko bolte h chal bhai ajj overthinking krte h ??😂

Of course nhi bolte  

Then how we can stop this ?

overthinking can be stopped by our logical thinking ,.

Whenever you feel like  you are going in the track of  overthinking  , just ask your subconscious part to stop ! Now analyse the point from where you have started the conversation In your mind .

When you ask yourself to stop , your subconscious part will forget the next dialogues of conversation and the conversation will stop . 

This is one of the best   way to stop  overthinking 

Whenever I feel like I am talking to myself alot 

I just say " chup hoja, bas kar ab 😂" 

Because once you started thinking , any person from outside can't stop you , only you can stop yourself ! 

Jais ki keval 1 formula se har question solve nhi hota , 

Vaise hi life m b har bar sochne se problem solve nhi hoti , 

" Kabhi kbhi bina soche samjhe b chl liya karo 

Kbhi kbhi bina bat k b muskura liya karo 

Kbhi kbhi galtiyan b kar liya karo "

 

Sometimes we think too much that we start imagining the situation 

There was a man who wants umbrella from his friend , so he decided to go and ask him for help when he was on the way towards his friend's house , he was thinking 

"I don't think he will help me, he is very stingy person , 

Chalo koi ni ek bar pooch leta hu 

But I am sure he  will create some excuses , he will not give,  I know 

May be he will say that he has already given his umbrella to someone else , 

" 

😂😂

He reached his friend house by uttering those words , 

He asked angrily because he has already made his mind that he will not give. 

And unfortunately his friend 's umbrella was torn in the middle 

😂😂

" That person : I already knew  that you will not give , I know you have torn your umbrella willingly because you  don't want to  help me " 

 

☺️😐

See , what happened just because of over thinking 

We invite misunderstandings by over thinking 

I hope you get my point 

This happens with all of us , sometime without even knowing the truth  overthinking redirects us to the conclusion , which leads to misunderstanding In our relationships and most importantly it effects our mental state . 

So think , but don't over think 

Because excess of everything is bad 

And excess of thinking is very bad !!!☺️

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Bye 

Fir milte h !

♥️