Chapter 14

 Chapter 14 

"Different opinions " 

I went to the market to purchase some clothes , 

"Bhaiya , show me that corner one "

"Yes , yes.. this black one "

It was a Saree of black colour  !!

There was one aunty who was standing behind me , she called the shopkeeper and ask to show her the brightest pink colour (very dark ) 

And after looking at that colour , she was happy 

 And  excited , seems like it was her favorite colour . 

Honestly speaking I really don't like that colour , and I was thinking " who will buy this🙄😒 " because according to me that colour was very irritating and was not worth buying . 

But after this judgement , I realised that may be she loves that colour as I love black ,!

I think I should not considered my choice as fact , it's just about different opinions , different choices . 

This was a incident of only 2 mins which taught me a lot .. 

I realised how hypocritic we are , how easily we distinguish between what is good or what is bad .

If someone  says anything bad about our views , our liking and disliking .. we can't bear this 

But on the parallel side we are not accepting others choices . 

Honestly tell me how many you comments , or discuss about other's way of dressing , way of doing things ??!

"Dekhio , kya phn rkha h "

"Chi, yr kaisa colour h ye  "

"Hayye , kitni bekar choice h logon ki " 

Haaina !!?.. aise hi bolte h Na hum !!

Yes , you can't deny this fact !!!

"The thing which we like , is considered as beautiful " but the thing which "we hate is considered as ugly " 

Right ???

If we say anything  wrong to someone , disrespect someone ,.. it is very well justified 

But someone  says something to us ... Is it justified in our opinion ???

Nooooo ,

People have different opinions , regarding different things , 

"Some one likes to eat street food , while someone don't "

I have seen  many times , we start bitching people just because our opinions are not same , just because our point of view are different from each other .

If something is bad for us ,  doesn't have to be bad for everyone . !?

I know all human beings have some features which are by default same , but opinions need not be same for everyone . !!

I think if our actions , our opinions are very well justified , then other's actions and opinions are justified too .. 

If we are not doing something wrong intentionally , then other's are also not doing it intentionally !!

Then how easily we conclude this , that we are right and the person in front of us is completely wrong !!? .. just think about it 

If someone is bad in our story , then we are also bad in someone's story , if we are judging someone , then someone is also judging us .. 

Because it's a cycle  or you can say "a never ending phenomenon " 

Before making any judgment , or before saying anything to anyone, always  remember this, 

"I know you have right to freedom , you can say  anything , but your words are just your views , not facts !!!" 

note : stay safe and stay happy , stay at your home only . Wish you all the very best .