Chapter 25

 Chapter 25 

Finding fault in others :

Yes , yes you are right , the title is saying almost everything I am going to write today , but don’t go after seeing the title because after reading the title we are like : ya , ya it’s about we find fault in others , we should also see our side bla n bla n bla .

You are correct actually I am going to write all about this only . But let’s go on the ride to understand more about human behaviour .

My father was reading one facebook post which includes the conversation between husband and wife where they decided to write down each other’s mistakes and decided to submit it after the completion of year .

So at the end of the year wife comes with her list which includes lot of little mistakes of her husband.

She was carrying a whole diary describing the date and timings of her husband mistakes

“ you always put the wet towel on the bed “ ,

“ you never put the shoes outside of the house “

“ you always take more time to read newspaper and all “

“ you never consider my functions seriously “

“ you do this , you do that …..”

said the wife

Her husband was listening and enjoying all the blames and now it’s his turn to show the diary of his wife mistakes .

He gave the diary to his wife , and asked her to open and read it .

All the pages were blank “

Wife asked him you didn’t even bother to write this for me “ !?

Husband smiled and replied : “ nothing like that my sweet heart , and I will also not explain this by saying that you never do mistakes , you do mistakes , we all do mistakes , there are various points in nature where we fail to satisfy our fellow human beings , but this doesn’t matter to me , it’s just your mistakes are not bigger than our relation and counting each other mistakes will not push our relationship forward , it will only create the argument between you and me , improving and ignoring the small things will help our relation to move forward .

I wrote nothing in this diary because your mistakes doesn’t matter to me , I only consider your good things , and I know homo sapeins can never be perfect , so I never expect you to be perfect wife .

“ no matter how much we fight this year but at the end you had me and I had you and that’s more than sufficient for me “ !!

Wife felt bad about how she noticed each and every single thing to tell him about his behaviour .

So after reading this whole post my papa was like “ see , see wives always do like this , we husbands are very cooperative “ 😂

Mummy papa were reading the post not for their own but to make their partner understand .

They both were blaming “ you always count my mistakes , you need to listen to this post “ 😆

In the Conner of the house there was a girl who wanted to write something and she got the topic after this , that girl was me ! 😂

I was enjoying the whole conversation.

I was thinking after reading the post :, one should decide that he/she will not count the mistakes of others from now , but the thing is we think that our partner needs to hear this “

So I said the same to them , why you are blaming each other for counting each other’s fault , instead of that from now ownwards decide to not count from your side “

Papa and mummy both replied “ I never do that , your mummy do that / , I never do that your papa always do that “

Poor me thinking : “ inka kuch nhi ho sakta bro “ ! 😂

Well that’s true it’s our by deafualt behaviour that we see the faults of others more quickly than their good things , and it can be improved only by accepting the behaviour of your fellow human beings because not everyone is going to behave accordingly .

Today no one wakes me up , neither my mom ,nor my dad but they usuallly do this daily and I got late for my presentation which makes me angry and I went to my mummy papa “ why you didn’t wake me up , you know na I had my presentation “

Now it will be your fault if get bad score in that 🥲😂!

They told  me they forgot my presentation and they were busy

When I was about to say something

Here comes my mummy reply

“ beta , you should not count others fault na , in fact you should be thank full to us for other days to wake you “ 🙃

Then I smiled “ ohhh , you were giving me my own medicine “

Then she smiled “ yes , before saying one must apply na 😂” !

Ya I got my lesson , sometimes we say things but didn’t apply them , even after asking them to not count each other’s fault , I was doing the same and not just in this situation , there are many things were we do this , which may be we will discuss later .

Now if you wanted to share something regarding this , you are most welcome !

Till then bye

See you soon 😁